Miss California: Defying the Conventional Foolishness
Posted: Wednesday, April 22, 2009
by Terry Mitchell
http://commenterry.blogs.com
Miss California, Carrie Prejean, may have lost the 2009 Miss USA crown, but she will ultimately be the one laughing all the way to the bank. When questioned by Perez Hilton, a celebrity blogger and pageant judge, about her opinion of gay marriage in the U.S., she replied that she believed marriage should be between a man and woman.
Yes, that answer cost her the title, but her defiance of the conventional foolishness by not giving Hilton the politically correct answer he was looking for made her the real winner in the hearts of many viewers. Accordingly, she has received the lion's share of the post-pageant buzz, and deservedly so.
Think about it, how many people can name the newly crowned Miss USA or even the state she is from? Sure, that young lady will get all the normal perks that come with such a title, but I doubt that they will be any match for the riches and fame that will be bestowed upon Miss Prejean. Not surprisingly, Hilton, who is openly gay, doesn't get it. He just can't understand why Prejean is getting all the (mostly positive) attention. Of course he can't.
In this country, gays and lesbians are free to live their lives as they see fit and call the living arrangements with their partners whatever they want to. I wholeheartedly support that freedom, and so does Miss Prejean. But I believe the government (that represents all of us, whether we like it or not) has no business recognizing the union of two men or two women as a "marriage" any more than it should validate the claim of a man who insists he's married to a squirrel. Miss Prejean apparently shares the same belief and was not willing to back away from it.
There is lesson in this for everyone, especially children and teens. You don't have to follow the crowd down to the road to perdition to succeed in life. In fact, sometimes – but not always, when you take a stand for what is right, you end up with more of this world's goods than those who are willing to compromise their principles in order to acquire them. Of course, that should not be the reason for taking a moral stand. That should be done because it is the right thing to do, even if it proves costly in terms material possessions or worldly favor. Sometimes, as in the case of Cassie Bernall during the Columbine massacre 10 years ago, it even results in the loss of one's life.
Three cheers for Miss California! We could use more young people like her.
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Top-level comments on this article: (3 total)Hi Terry."In fact, sometimes – but not always, when you take a stand for what is right, you end up with more of this world's goods than those who are willing to compromise their principles in order to acquire them." The only problem I personally have with this statement (and it's not an issue of political correctness, but tolerance) is the the use of the word "right." In my opinion, it would have been better to have written "take a stand for what you believe in."Homosexuals are people just as heterosexuals are. For the government to deny recognition of gay marriages is discrimination. Homosexuals are thereby denied the benefits regarding taxation that heterosexuals enjoy. To me, that is just plain unfair.Thanks for a thoughtful article,DianneDianne, thanks for reading and commenting. It's always been my view that taxes should not be based on marital status. As far as tax status is concerned, every adult should be treated as an individual.Now, if you want to talk about something that's unfair in the tax system, it's the way people with dependent children get tax breaks. It should be just the other way around, i.e., those people should have to pay more taxes, not less. Instead, people without children end up picking up the tab for other people's kids. How fair is that?Hi Terry.Good point and that really isn't fair. As one of those childless couples, we've often commented on the unfairness of that. But, we can't fix everything all at once. Shoot, we can't seem to fix much of anything for that matter.Ooh, I've also often thought that people without children shouldn't have to pay for schools in their property taxes either. And I went and forgot my admonition to myself to just remember that life is not fair.DianneYes, Dianne, I often forget it myself.
am glad that miss california had the courage to stand up for what she believes in.it was very bold of her.Also, her loosing the crown for that comment and perez hilton' insults is discrimination by gays since we emphasize on freedom of speech.
Three cheers for Miss California. She has become an icon we
have been looking for. We have someone who is not afraid
to stand up for what is right. I am one of those who would fight
to the death for someone to speak for faith, hope and love.
Sign me up for her fan club.
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